Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Life needs to be understand practically

Life needs to be understood practically before accepted physically.
Living Life Practically............

Often is it questioned, what is life all about, why are we here and what is it that we need to fulfill? We research deep into our own nature, seeking answers to the age old mystery of life. People reach this point of questioning mostly in the times in their life when things start to feel a bit of a strain or fight physically. They wonder why they have to achieve things and question what the meaning behind such physical limitation is.

We live in a world that holds to certain rules and structures. Born into it and taught by all that have already been before. Always are we told how it must be and what we should be doing, but never are we told why it must be or why we must participate at all? Even children are constantly being spoken to in a way that only provides no and yes answers, and never an understanding of why they need to experience things in such systems and structure.
There are stages of thinking that a person goes through in order to understand their position in life. They first have issues that arise and they must then confront physical limitation and constraint. Firstly they will fight against their perceived repressors words and rules, just like when a child refuses to do things when a parent asks of it. Even though the repressor might not always be pushing concepts and ideas onto a person for want of hurting them, mostly it is done out of caring and wanting for another person to fit into life. It is still when brought down to simplicity, a rule presented forth through another person’s beliefs and opinions on life. It is not until we reach the stage of adulthood that we realize how much this is evident, that what our parents always told us to do, is not necessarily the way we will choose to do it for ourselves.
Fighting against restriction is the first step we take on the path to understanding life and why we are here. We first confront our position in life and question why all things must take place, and why we need to participate in all the physical rules and structures in life. The next stage is when we realize that certain rules and structures when not met in life bring to us worse struggle than our defiance from wanting to participate. This is the stage that leads to depression for a lot of people, and when they reach this stage most often they will seek outside help for answers.
A lot of times these depression stages, when we have to acknowledge that we are living in life and that there are certain things that need to take place in order to survive, we really start to question our reality and why it exists. Most people reach this stage through certain steps within their life, but others reach this stage when great turmoil comes into their life, or dramatic life events. At these stages they will reach out to people that can help them through their emotional and mental problems and lead them on a path of finding happiness and contentment in their life.
It does not matter how much help we seek in life from others, eventually the understanding of our circumstances in life needs to be confronted individually. Although another person can give us advice that comes from their own choices and perception on life, it is not until a person deals with their own experiences emotionally and mentally before they come to levels of acceptance inside themselves.
Acceptance comes from understanding life at the most practical level. Seeing it through cause and effect rather than in have to and must do, knowing that we are already here and that we not only have the ability to think but also to physically experience life through perception in our bodies. This gives us a stepping stone to hold ourselves up on. The fact that we are here gives us every reason to participate in life and see it as an experience. If the experience were not meant to be, then surely it would not have a reason to exist. This shows us that we are the experience of life and reality, not the reason for it, but the effect from the cause.
Knowing that we are the experience of reality, both physically and mentally, helps us to understand and accept reality at all levels, seeing it as a playing field with so much potential and purpose. You could think of it in this way perhaps, if you had the choice between not existing or taking on animated existence that had so much potential for growth and experience, which would you choose? Would you choose nothing or a life of something?

Train Your Brain to be Positive Everyday
Everyday for 3 weeks, I wake up with a smile and say “I’m having a great day” and clap 3 times and shout “today is my day”. Until it becomes my habit; I got this information from my doctor when I was diagnosed with seasonal depression. And if works for me it will also work with you! My seasonal depression was gone 2 years after repetitive habits of optimism.
Do not allow negative thoughts to ruin your good start. You should refrain from thinking negative things because it can ruin your entire day, you can always shift by faking to be happy, later you just notice you are feeling great.

Avoid gossiping and avoid negative people. You know who those people who are pessimistic are; they are not good in your development and self improvement. If you want to be better in life; go with those happy and optimistic people. You can always choose your friends if you want the best for you.
Always think of abundance and manifest in your thoughts, words and actions. You should always implicate optimism with abundance. If you thought of good things, it will show in your actions and people will notice it and start treating you better and you can attract better people.
Divert your brain if you’re thinking of negative thoughts; you can find other things to avoid thinking of negative or dirty thoughts; be determined to think of always positive things.
Listen to yourself, know your limits and capabilities – don’t do too much when you know you cannot sustain. You shouldn’t force yourself from doing anything you do not like.
Listen to your fears and trick your sub-conscious – your inner child is like a database of all your experiences, it doesn’t want to make you feel sad or endanger you, that is why when there are new things that are similar to your previous experiences, your subconscious warns you. You can trick it by agreeing to it and explain later to yourself that you are having an unreasonable fear.

•Meditate and make it a habit – meditation makes your brain relax and blank. If you think you overworked your brain and your sense the stress and fatigue you can never form positive attitude, so meditate everyday or yoga is a good relaxing exercise.
Whatever ways fits for you, always remember people wants good things in life and you can only attract it if you are positive of wanting it, “Positive things, turn out to positive people”.

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A few points short of a ticket
Kim Bouck is wary of the fine print on the "free" ticket offer by American Express. So she gets a few of the company's promises in writing. When the promises are broken, however, American Express backtracks -- and she's left ticketless. What now?
Q: I recently found an American Express Business Gold Rewards credit card deal that promised that if I applied and spent $1,000 by a certain date, I would have enough points for a domestic airline ticket.
Not wanting to be fooled by fine print, I engaged in a lengthy online chat with a representative to clarify this deal. I was promised there would be no blackout dates or restrictions. I specifically asked about a flight I wanted to book from Salt Lake City to Dallas, and was told that I could apply 5,000 points from a purchase and 20,000 points from the $1,000 to have enough for the ticket.
Now that I have accrued the points and attempted to redeem them for my "free" ticket, I'm being told that my points will be converted to $250 to be applied toward the purchase price of a ticket. A ticket costs $350.
I have spent a number of hours on the phone with American Express trying to get them to honor the statements of their representative. They have told me there is no way to track down the individual with whom I had the initial chat, no way to honor the promise and no way to speak with a supervisor.
I applied for this card specifically to get the points for a ticket and completed the process in reliance on the statements furnished by American Express. Shouldn't it be held accountable for the information its representatives give customers?

A: If you have the transcript of the online chat, this should be an open-and-shut case. American Express owes you an airline ticket.
You were correct to be skeptical of this "free" ticket offer. In my experience, these promotions -- indeed, the loyalty programs as a whole -- benefit the companies offering them far more than they help customers.
Consider what happened to you. In exchange for this ticket, American Express required that you apply for a card and spend money. Lots of money. Now who is that helping? You?
Likewise, airline loyalty programs dangle "free" tickets and other perks in front of their frequent fliers. But in exchange, they not only demand your loyalty, they also require you to do stupid things, like make so-called "mileage runs" designed to reach one of their generally meaningless elite levels.
Of course, American Express can offer any program it wants to, as long as it's legal. It can make its own rules. But when it represents the promotion to you in writing, as an online chat, it better be prepared to stand behind the offer. That didn't happen.
I'm disappointed, but not surprised, by your case. I've worked with many travelers who complain that American Express is difficult to reach and does not allow grievances to be escalated to a supervisor. I think you might have had more luck by putting it in writing. Here's a link to help you submit your comment on its site.
When all else fails, you can always find the name of an executive and copy that person on your appeal. The naming convention for e-mails at American Express is
Keeping the instant messages between you and American Express was brilliant. I contacted the company on your behalf and included your correspondence with the representative.
American Express issued another 15,000 miles to your account, which will more than cover your flight to Dallas.

your relationship will be richer

Say the right thing and your relationship will be richer, fuller, and more naked than ever.The way to a woman's bedroom is through her ears. That's because for me and most women I know, chatting about relationships is as much fun as having them. It starts during kindergarten ("Want to be my boyfriend?") and continues through adolescence ("Do you like him, or do you like him like him?") and adulthood ("Call me after your date, to recap").To have a rich, full, naked relationship with one of us, you have to participate in this sort of chatter. And that can be a problem. "She's doing something she's done throughout her life and feels good at," says Deborah Tannen, Ph.D., whose book You Just Don't Understand unlocks the mysteries of male-female communication. "He hasn't done much of it, doesn't particularly enjoy it, and feels it's not his game." So you try your best—asking good questions, giving solid answers, and making her laugh. But there are a few difficult conversations that men, try as they might, tend to screw up.That's about to change. Here is your guide to the six trickiest relationship talks. "Each of these, if handled correctly, is a ticket to the next level of intimacy with a woman," promises Les Parrott, Ph.D., the author of Love Talk. In other words, say the right thing and your relationship will be richer, fuller, and more naked than ever. And that's worth talking about.

your special one.........
Make things easy on you and still give her what she's hoping for
Valentine's Day is quite possibly the worst holiday for men. You have to make plans, spend money, and do everything "right"—at least you know you'll have sex that night. Take the stress-free approach this year with this guide. Whether you have 2 weeks, 1 week, or less than a day to plan, you'll find original ideas she'll love—and that are simple for you to execute. Follow these steps (or as many as you like—hopefully she's not expecting everything this year), and she'll give you a great gift on the night of the 14th.